Capturing memories for a lifetime

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, especially for mums, it can be easy to forget to take a moment and capture memories. Mums  often find themselves behind the camera, documenting their children’s lives, family vacations, birthday parties, and all those precious moments that make up the fabric of a family’s story. But what happens when mums  are always the ones taking the pictures? They end up missing from the story.

Here’s why it’s crucial for mums  to be in the picture—literally and figuratively.

1. Creating a Legacy for Your Children

Photographs are more than just snapshots in time; they are a legacy. When your children grow up, they’ll look back on family albums to remember their childhood, the love that surrounded them, and the moments that shaped who they are. If you’re always behind the camera, there will be fewer images of you in those memories.

Children don’t care if you’re not camera-ready or if you’re not feeling your best that day. What they will care about is seeing you present, happy, and part of their lives. These images will become a cherished part of their history, reminding them of the strong, loving person who was always there for them.

2. Celebrating the Role of Motherhood

As we know motherhood is an incredible journey, full of ups and downs, challenges, and triumphs. Being in the picture is a way to celebrate that journey. It’s about acknowledging the hard work, the love, and the countless sacrifices that come with being a mom.

Photos of you with your children tell the story of your life together. They show your involvement, your nurturing, and your presence in every stage of their growth. These images capture the bond between you and your children in a way that words often can’t.

3. Building Self-Confidence

Many mums avoid being in photos because they’re self-conscious about their appearance. Maybe you don’t like how you look on a particular day, or you’re worried about those extra kilos that haven’t gone away. But here’s the thing: your children don’t see those things. They see their mum, the person they love unconditionally.

The more you step in front of the camera, the more comfortable you’ll become with seeing yourself in photos, which can do wonders for your self-confidence.

4. Living in the Moment

Being in the picture isn’t just about having a record of events; it’s about fully participating in those moments. When you decide to step in front of the camera, you’re choosing to be present, to engage, and to enjoy the moment with your loved ones.

Photos have a unique way of bringing us back to the feelings, emotions, and experiences we had when they were taken. When you look at a photo years from now, you’ll be able to relive the joy, the laughter, and the connection you felt in that moment. It’s a beautiful way to preserve not just the visual memory, but the emotional one as well.

5. Encouraging Balance

Family dynamics are about balance, and that includes who gets to be in the picture. It’s important for children to see both parents in their photos (if possible). It shows them that both roles are valuable and that their lives are shared experiences with both parents.

When mums are regularly in the picture, it sets an example for children about the importance of self-inclusion and self-worth. It teaches them that everyone’s presence matters and that everyone deserves to be seen.

Tips for Mums  to Get in the Picture More Often

• Hand Over the Camera: Let someone else take the photos. Whether it’s your partner, a friend, or even setting up a tripod, make sure you’re in the shot.
• Use the Timer Function: Most cameras and smart phones have a timer function. Set it up, run into the frame, and capture the moment!
• Candid Moments: Not every photo has to be posed. Some of the best images are the candid ones where you’re simply enjoying the moment with your family.
• Make It a Habit: Regularly make an effort to be in photos, whether it’s during special occasions or just an ordinary day at home.

Being in the picture is about more than just capturing an image; it’s about being part of the memory. Mums , don’t shy away from the camera. Embrace it, because you are a vital part of your family’s story. Your presence in photos will be cherished by your children and loved ones for years to come. Remember, you deserve to be seen, celebrated, and remembered—just as much as everyone else in the picture.